Self-Concept does all the Work!

 A big question, I must ask, how many of us really do talk good about ourselves? How do you react when someone compliments you? As much as feeling and thinking good about ourselves is important, talking good is too! I have seen so many people getting compliments about themselves, their clothing or makeup and stuff but they just brush it off and talk weird about themselves instead of accepting it, in a graceful manner. For instance, we know a girl called Grace and we met just now at an event. I complimented her makeup but instead of accepting it she just said "Oh! It's no big deal, in fact I personally think it just looks cakey." But I end up feeling that she is a bit weird to say that. Expressing your opinion is good but that is not what I said or asked. In a way, that would be put in the 'people who do not have enough confidence' category and I would eventually start disliking her a bit with the belief that she does not like the fact I compliment her. Now, imagine if she took it the other way and said "Thank you!' with a big smile on her face. My opinions would get even better about her and there is a reason for it.

In today's 'brainrot', we are familiar with the term 'aura points' and what if I tell you that your opinion about yourself gets you aura points. You are a person who may not be perfect but has the confidence, the inner belief that you can pull off anything or you can also be the person who is perfect but is never satisfied with what she does and does not have the confidence either. Guess how many points both the versions of you got, The confident one got +1000 points and the not-at-all confident one got -1000 points. Why? Your confidence not only defines you but it also shapes the opinions of others towards you. The paragraph of Grace's example, go read the last line again. The reason for my opinion is her self-esteem. 

Don't you ever see a woman or man walking down the street so confidently that you cannot take your eyes off them? And we have also seen women and men walking down the street trying to look confident but their inner reflection shows that they are still not confident. Another way to explain this is by taking a murder that has been committed and all the people, who were present at the time are being investigated. There, is a woman who very simply and confidently tells the officer she did not commit it and on the other hand, a man very consciously- while stuttering says he did not commit it. Who do you think the police will suspect first? Very obvious, the man, but do you know who the actual murderer ended up being? The woman. That is how much your body language and external 'vibe' matters.

It may not be easy to accept at first, but try and work on it instead. You can never be perfect but how does it even matter as long as you know that you are perfect. Don't bully your inner-self. You are not supposed to have any reason to hate yourself. If you don't care, nobody cares and even if you care, nobody cares. And even if you STILL care then let me tell you about the 'Spotlight' effect. It is basically how all of us think that everyone is looking at us, judging us but in fact, everyone is too busy wondering what others' think about them so let them wonder about themselves and move on with your lives because when I say, they do not care, they are too busy looking at themselves and THAT gives you another reason to stop caring about what others' think so Step up your game. Pull your socks back up and start realizing the actual truth. Try and figure out the reason why you are unable to walk down the street in confidence and if you already know 'You are the best and are the epitome of perfection-- the living example' . Congratulations! you are officially done with the first step of manifesting and are ready to walk down the path of abundance. Don't let childhood traumas or any psychological fears affect this thing called your mind. If your subconscious mind has the belief that "You are the ugliest person and nobody likes you". The universe will give your mind more and more reasons to prove that you are the ugliest person and nobody literally, nobody likes you (so please be careful). And with that I end my second blog. Thank you for investing your precious time into reading this! Goodbye and see you soon in your most confident version ever. XOXO